Why Did You Start Smoking for the First Time?
"Want one?"
"No coming"
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"Want one?"
"Farewell"
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"Want one?"
"Then I'll give it a try"
Everything has a reason, and there is no first time for no reason. We all know that smoking is harmful to our health, so starting smoking for the first time is like"Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, I prefer to go to Tiger Mountain”
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Why did you start smoking for the first time?
Does obsession with nicotine numb the nerves? ? ?
Is the dense smoke drifting out of your fingers and mouth?
Because it is the spiritual sustenance when you are at a loss?? ? ??
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I used to be a person who hated smoking very much. One of the reasons was that my grandfather died of lung cancer due to smoking when I was a child.#p#paginated title #e#I hope important people around me will stop smoking, the second is that the impression stays on the adults who smoked smoke on the dining table and in the corridor when they were a child.The lingering smoke in the air contaminated clothes and lasted for a long time.
I grew up and learned more, and I slowly began to accept it. I think thisMaybe it's part of people's lives.
But I was confused about the reason why everyone smoked for the first time. Driven by curiosity, I clicked on Zhihu
Next, let's experience the "love-hate" between netizens and cigarettes
Q: What was the first time you smoked?
1They tried to relieve all unbearable stress
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In order to express their feelings, they have nothing to do ?
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In order to integrate into the crowd, they are reluctant to refuse
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They want to be alone and have their own space
As you know what netizens said, peopleSpend a lot of time wandering, only a few moments to grow #p#pagination title #e#
Cigarette was unfamiliar to us at first
But maybe when there's no way to do anything,
In desperation
After working hard for a long time, I couldn't get everything I expected
It seems to feel overwhelmed by reality, restrained by the past, and confused for the future
You take out a lighter, light the cigarette unskillfully, take a deep breath
Hiding in the rising smoke, trying to give yourselfa moment of peace
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I began to wonder why people around me started smoking for the first time. Are they the same?
So I asked them
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He said he thought zippo lighters were cool,want to have a
She said she was in love,Need to decompress #p#pagination header #e#
He said he wanted to become social andadapt to the environment
She said, looking at the slowly rising smoke in the air, it seemed as if the world had quieted for a moment,Belonging only to herself...
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I asked them again
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"Nine times out of ten life is not as good as you want, but you can always talk to others."
I heard many stories that everyone didn't tell
At that moment that year, the exhaust fan was turned on in the toilet, in the dark corridor, amid the jokingly sound of elders, alone on the windowsill on a winter night...
becauseboredom, becausecurious, becausefollow the trend, becausepressure, becausefeelings, forgregarious· · · ·
You choose nicotine, take a deep breath, and paralyze your nerves
"I think that many, many beginnings seem to have a reason, but maybe I can't explain the reason."
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Gradually I began to understand the behavior that I had been unacceptable,
Thinking that it might just be a sustenance when the soul is fragile,
Everyone has the right to choose their own lifestyle,
It's just like everyone expresses equal vulnerability in different ways.
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Smoke is like emotions, uncontrollable
But it turns out that you can still quit smoking, just like some scars can be healed, and it won't be so difficult.
It's not that simple.As long as you believe that you can do it, as long as you wait patiently for the really right person to do it.Now…
No matter what you started for and what you ended for, may you in front of the screenAlways be truly happy and live up to yourself
